There are some people who love to boast of their tolerance but actually it is inspired by egotism; they want to be left alone in their own ideas, how ever wrong they be, so they plead for a tolerance is very dangerous, for it becomes intolerance as soon as the ego is disturbed or menaced. That is why a civilization which is tolerance about false ideas instead of being charitable to persons is on the eve of a great wave of intolerance and persecution.
The egotist always considers his ego in terms of not having or wanting something. His principal action is drawing something to himself like the mouth which absorbs food. There is no outgoing, no service and never a sacrifice because he interprets sacrifice as the diminishing of himself.
True love, on the contrary, feels that the need to give is more imperious than the need to receive. At the beginning of love there is a feeling that one can never give enough. Regardless of how precious the gift, it still seems to fall short of what one would offer. Price tags are torn off because we want no proportion established between the gift and the need of giving. The tragedy of love when begins to die, is that then people do not even give what they have. No longer is there a question of not being able to give enough; there is rather no giving at all.
In real love there is pity and need. Pity in the sense that one feels the need of expansion and of giving to the point of exhaustion; need, because of a void that one would see filled. True love receives without ever interpreting what is given. It never seeks another motive than that of love itself. He who asks "why" something is given does not trust.
One of the tragedies of our time is that freedom is interpreted in terms of freedom from something instead of in terms of love. The man who loves everybody is a free man; the man who hates is the man who has already enslaved himself. The man who hates is dependent on that which he cannot love - and therefore he is not free. To hate one's next door neighbour is a restriction of freedom. it demands walking around the block so one will not see him or waiting until he leaves the house before leaving oneself.
It is our loves and desires that determine our pains. If our supreme love is the pleasure of the body, then our greatest pain is loss of health; if our supreme love is wealth, then our deepest worry is insecurity; if our supreme love is God, then our greatest fear is sin.
The great mystery is not why we love but why we are loved. it is easy to understand why we love because of our incompleteness and our radical dissatisfaction apart from goodness. But why anyone should love us is the mystery, for we know when we look at our real selves how very little there is to love. Why creatures should love us is not too great a mystery, for they are imperfect too. But for God to love us - that we will never understand. The soul that has finally come to love God is worried by the thought that he has already lost so much time. As Saint Augustine said: "Late have I loved You, O Beauty ever ancient, ever new. Late have I loved You". But, on the other hand, this regret is compensated for by the knowledge that it was always in the Divine plan that we eventually come to know God.
We love to see ourselves idealized in the minds of others. That is one of the beautiful joys of love. We become fresh, innocent, brave, strong in the mind of the beloved. Love covers up the corruption of the soul. The winter of discontent is forgotten by being clothed in the bosoms of a new spring. After a while the lover begins to substitute what he really is in his own mind, with what he is in the mind of other. It is this idealization which pleases in love. That is why love gives an incentives to betterment. When the other thinks well of us, we try to be worthy of that opinion. The fact that others assume us to be good is great incentive to goodness. That is why, too, one of the basic principles of life ought to assume goodness in others; thus we make them good.
BY ARCHBISHOP FULTON J. SHEEN (1895-1979)
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Sunday, May 24, 2009
I have through years of reading, pondering, reflecting and contemplating, the 3 things that last; FAITH . HOPE . LOVE and I would like to made available my sharing from the many thinkers, authors, scholars and theologians whose ideas and thoughts I have borrowed. God be with them always. Amen!
I STILL HAVE MANY THINGS TO SAY TO YOU BUT THEY WOULD BE TOO MUCH FOR YOU NOW. BUT WHEN THE SPIRIT OF TRUTH COMES, HE WILL LEAD YOU TO THE COMPLETE TRUTH, SINCE HE WILL NOT BE SPEAKING AS FROM HIMSELF, BUT WILL SAY ONLY WHAT HE HAS LEARNT; AND HE WILL TELL YOU OF THE THINGS TO COME.
HE WILL GLORIFY ME, SINCE ALL HE TELLS YOU WILL BE TAKEN FROM WHAT IS MINE. EVERYTHING THE FATHER HAS IS MINE; THAT IS WHY I SAID: ALL HE TELLS YOU WILL BE TAKEN FROM WHAT IS MINE. - JOHN 16:12-15 -